Porn? Sure! But let’s get sophisticated and... et-hi-cal!

Porn? Sure! But let’s get sophisticated and... et-hi-cal!

By ANTONINA DĘBOGÓRSKA

Adult movies. Erotica. Porn.

Have you ever spared a thought on what are the alternatives to the content that we can all find on the numerous 'hubs' and 'tubs'?

Or have you, even for a moment, stopped and thought about what kind of ideas and businesses you're supporting when you push the play button on one of them.

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It started with eggs and T-shirts and now we're about to get into your pants!

So, introducing the 'lovely' concept of Ethical Porn.

Let's take a step back.

To understand ethical porn, we first need to master the awareness of what non-ethical porn is. Long story short: it starts with the actors that you see on screen who could be cheated or tricked to deliver a certain sexual performance, or underpaid, or work in really unhygienic and unsafe conditions, or abused by directors/producers, and/or forced to create a myth around what sex should be.

So, how can you be sure that you're not supporting non-ethical porn and its ideas?

First and foremost - Did you pay to watch the movie? If the answer is YES, then you're on a good track to be an ethical porn consumer.

Second - Can you find the contact of the producer easily? Is it clear who directed it? Do you see the names of the entire crew? When it comes to watching porn, you should have easy access to the creators of it too.

Third, if you searched for anything on the 'hubs' and 'tubs' sites, you might notice the fact that most of the productions there have a similar style of production value and vibe.

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On ethical porn websites, you can have access to more SOPHISTICATED and realistic content. You can watch porn which is more diverse when it comes to looks, body shape, sexuality, orientation. It's because ethical porn celebrates DIVERSITY.

And this is where the real 'sexy' can be found.

If the ethics of ethical porn doesn't convince you personally, then think about the opportunities to see real people engaging in a more real pleasure and not so exaggerated sexual activity.

But if you are a regular consumer of 'hubs' and 'tubs' and you decide to pay for your porn and switch to subscribing more ethical content, don't be surprised that 'you're surprised' and feel more curious than turned on. Our sexuality (especially penis-owners) is conditioned to certain stimulations.

Hence, a totally new style of adult movies might work for you in a different manner.

Maybe you'll get more inspired than turned on at first.

But then turn on and wow-on beautifully blends and concocts into a blissful experience!

We talked to three people who recently switched to ethical porn and here's what they said -

Paul, 28, Accountant

In the beginning, I thought, 'Pay for my porn? Why should I, if there are so many free sites and videos available? No way!' But my girlfriend convinced me to get a subscription. And I really like it. It's not like I never watch mainstream porn websites anymore, but now I have access to watch something that's more meaningful, let's say, real eroticism. And I can watch it with my girlfriend, and it elevates our romantic atmosphere."

Mark, 32, HR consultant

What I really like about all the ethical websites is that it inspires me to have sex. I don't treat it as a quick bite to my solo sessions. With these movies, I started to fantasize about my partner and get inspired by the characters. It's just different than the porn I was used to watching.

Alice, 26, musician and painter

I've never liked porn as we know it. I consider it to be in bad taste and everything's the same; blonde girls with horrible make-up, horrendous nails, and augmented breasts covered with sperm from a guy who I'd never want to meet in my bedroom (Sorry guys!). And then, I discovered an ethical porn website (Read - Erika Lust; she's amazing) and coughed up the fees straight away. As the payment was underway, I was laughing at myself, here I am, who disliked porn, is paying for porn. But I don't regret it one bit! I feel great after watching these movies; not only to masturbate but for example, before a hot date with my boyfriend or WITH him. It literally transports me to great mood instantly.

Have we convinced you enough yet? Since we explained all that you need to know about ethical porn, it's only obvious for us to steer you towards some of our favorite sites on the internet.

Check out the list below and don't forget to drop a comment if you signed up for any of the ethical porn websites.

Bright Desire

Erika Lust

The Crash Pad Series

Pink Label

Make Love Not Porn

Ersties

Lustery

Petra Joy

Trenchcoat X

I Feel Myself

Hegre

O'Actually

This is by no means an exhaustive list. There are many other creators who deliver stunning imagery and visuals. Who have we missed? Let us know.


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